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The man had essentially been in acadamics his whole life and was emotionally immature. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. This is because they gave up the structure of what made them desirable in the first place.
I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. Please don't add to that grandious ego. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there.
These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. I seriously could have been the one to write most of that about my situation. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. I came across your blog on a google search and I really enjoyed what you wrote.